Thursday, June 11, 2009

Baby Mama's guide to Dating! Your help is needed.

Hello All,

I know its been awhile but I've been staying busy (Praise God). But although I've been busy I have tried to remain true to my commitments (promises) to GOD. I have become less of a slacker and have actually stayed on a schedule (thanks to DJ). I have tried my best to attend bible study and church regularly and called mostly all my clients back when I'm supposed to (and as a working real estate agent that's hard:)

In the meantime, yes in the meantime. I can't keep my thoughts of wanting someone to share my in the meantime moments with.
Hey, I'm only human and no one wants to be lonely. I have been claiming to be happily single for over a year now. Recently I met a new guy that wooed me enough to give him my number. Yes, I said wooed.
I spend most of my free time with my son and trust me he keeps me busy but I can't help but feel like maybe it's time for me to start dating again.

But I'm scared. Yes scared.
Due to the fact that I'm a mom and I kinda don't know how to do both without leaving one feeling neglected.

Of course, I refuse to neglect my child but how do you do both?
According to my daily schedule, I'm up between 8-8:30 a.m. preparing breakfast and bathing myself and my son. We usually don't leave home until 9:30-10:00ish.
Drop him off at daycare and make it to the office or my first appointment by 10:30-11 a.m.
From this point on I'm running, processing or Facebooking until it's time to pick up DJ from his dad's around 5-6p.m.
We generally eat dinner around 7-7:30. I watch my shows from 8-9:30 and I'm usually sleep by 10:30.

So I need your help???

How am I supposed to date??????
How long should you date before introducing your new boo to your child?
Being a cautious woman and mother, how long before you let him come over to your home before introducing the kid? Should this happen simultaneously?
Should the ex know when you introduce them?

Seriously ladies, I need your help and if I publish this as a self-help guide in the future I promise to throw you a lil something, something. lol.

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